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Try This Before Eliminating a Food Group

By Abby Quillen

Most women I know have cut out dairy, gluten, grains, legumes, or soy or experimented with a diet that eliminates a food group, such as Paleo, Keto, or Whole 30. Some men I know have too. I’ve been there as well. (More on my story below.)

Here’s what I wish I could tell my younger self: A restrictive elimination diet may not be the only or best answer. There’s another approach to vibrant health, one that your grandmother probably knew, and one that’s emphasized by many traditional healing practices, including Traditional Chinese Medicine and Ayurveda. It’s called nourishment, and your body, mind, and spirit may be craving it.

Are you well nourished? Even asking yourself the question is a little radical. Our culture doesn’t put much value on nourishment. Doctors, workplaces, therapists, schools, and the media rarely mention it. But it may be time to put more of your focus on nourishing yourself, especially if you’re struggling with your mental or physical health.

My Elimination Diet

When I was 20 and in college, I developed digestive issues and broke out in rashes. My doctor suggested I eliminate dairy from my diet. I followed his advice and felt better. His theory was that I’d developed an allergy to a dairy protein and may outgrow the allergy at some point. Over the next decade, I tried eating dairy a few times and experienced the same symptoms.

Then, at age 32, between my two pregnancies, I tried dairy again. This time, I had zero reactions, and I’ve eaten it ever since. In hindsight, though, I don’t think I outgrew my allergy. At 20, I ate a lot of processed, fake, “fat-free,” and junk foods. But by my thirties, I ate a healthy diet of real food, including plenty of fruits and vegetables, grains, and meat. I was nourishing my body better, and while I was at it, I was nourishing vast ecosystems inside my body.

Science Catches Up With Traditional Wisdom

Scientists sequenced the DNA of the human gastrointestinal microbiome in 2012 and discovered we share our bodies with trillions of microscopic organisms, which are organized into ecosystems that resemble forest ecosystems.

The balance of predators and prey determine the health of an ecosystem. In a 1966 experiment, scientists removed the purple starfish from the Washington coast, and the population of mussels (the purple starfish’s food source) exploded and crowded out all other plant life. When wolves were reintroduced to Yellowstone Park, they regulated the elk population, which triggered a bioligical cascade that increased the number of willow, aspens, beetles, beavers, ravens, eagles, magpies, coyotes, bears, lynxes, and wolverines. Something similar can happen in your interior wilderness based on what you eat.

When the predators and prey in your microbiome are unbalanced, it’s called dysbiosis. This can result from taking antibiotics or using antiseptics, and it can also be caused by diet. Many conditions we once attributed to other causes have now been linked to diet-induced dysbiosis. The composition of your intestinal microbiota can influence your susceptibility to:

  • Ulcerative colitis
  • Crohn’s disease
  • Celiac disease
  • Irritable bowel syndrome
  • Obesity
  • Type 1 diabetes
  • Type 2 diabetes
  • Autoimmune diseases
  • Arthritis and other inflammatory condition
  • Food allergies

The Downside of Elimination Diets

Approximately 20 percent of the population have food allergies or sensitivities. Many more people try restrictive diets for other reasons, such as to lose weight, have more energy, or improve general health. But, just as with medications, strict diets can have unintended side effects.

First of all, diets that ban whole, nutrient-dense foods (such as dairy) may encourage people to reach for heavily processed alternatives.

Furthermore, restrictive diets impact social relationships, which are incredibly important for health and happiness. Humans have been gathering together to break bread for at least three centuries, and food is one of the primary ways we connect. Not being able to enjoy food with other people can be isolating and lonely. Restrictive diets also make travel more difficult, especially to foreign locales. Restrictive diets can have even more damaging effects for children. Childhood food allergies are linked with anxiety, compulsive behaviors, and eating disorders.

Please don’t feel bad or guilty if you’re on an elimination diet or if you’ve put your kid on one. Remember, I was on one for years. I only want to mention that there’s an alternate approach that may be just as healing. If you’re in search of better health, clearer skin, or more energy, or if you’d like to relieve gastrointestinal symptoms (that are not severe or life threatening), you may want to first try healing your gut with better nourishment. There are zero down sides to adopting a more nourishing diet. If you’re on an elimination diet and need to stay on one, you could probably also benefit from putting more focus on nourishment.

A Nourishment Crisis

Although Americans eat enough calories, 85 percent of us do not consume the recommended daily intake of the most important vitamins and minerals necessary for health.

The reasons are many fold. Seventy percent of the American diet is processed, and we tend to choose less nutritious foods over nutrient-dense whole foods. We eat almost no wild foods, which usually contain far more nutrients than their cultivated counterparts. Moreover, our crops are less nutritious than they were fifty years ago because industrial agriculture prizes shelf life over nutrition. The protein, calcium, potassium, iron, and vitamins B2 and C in our food supply are declining.

Not Just About Food

Moreover, nourishment is not just about food. Americans are chronically undernourished in two other key  ways that have an impact on our nutrient levels: physical activity and relaxation.

Frequent movement is what circulates nutrients to our bones, joints, ligaments, connective tissue, and organs. However, 80 percent of Americans do not exercise, and we walk about half as many steps as health experts recommend.

Americans are also under constant stress, which floods our bodies with hormones that deplete certain nutrients and trigger the gut microbiota to behave erratically. We can be nourished by long walks, time outdoors, time with friends, meditation, or time alone. What would your life look like if you put your focus on nourishing yourself?

A Recipe for Better Nourishment

1. Eat real food

As Americans have transitioned to a diet of mostly processed foods, the above illnesses linked with gut dysbiosis have become epidemic. You don’t need to worry about measuring micro-nutrients to nourish your microbiome. Simply eat a wide variety of minimally processed, colorful, nutritious foods, such as:

  • Leafy greens
  • Seaweed
  • Fish, meats, and organ meats
  • Whole grains
  • Legumes
  • Vegetables
  • Fruits and berries
  • Nuts and seeds
  • Fermented vegetables and dairy
  • Full fat dairy products

2. Go wild

Wild foods are usually far more nutritious than their cultivated counterparts. Humans once had a 100 percent wild diet and now we eat almost none. It’s easy to learn how to identify, forage, and prepare a few wild foods, some of which may be growing in your backyard:

  • Dandelion greens
  • Watercress
  • Purslane
  • Miner’s lettuce
  • Nettles
  • Wild mustard
  • Blackberries
  • Wild strawberries
  • Elderberries

3. Eat local and seasonal.

Industrial crop types are chosen for shelf life, not nutrient levels. Local and seasonal foods are usually fresher and more nutritious. (Learn more about the benefits of seasonal eating in my blog post Local, Seasonal Foods Are Superfoods).

4. Cook

Preparing whole foods from scratch is the most nourishing way to eat. According to research conducted at Johns Hopkins Bloomberg School of Public Health, people who frequently cook meals at home eat healthier than those who cook less without even trying.

5. Stop the war on germs

Once you understand that you’re tending an internal ecosystem that’s vital to your health and well-being, it makes no sense to use products that claim to kill “99.9 percent of the germs” on your skin or in your mouth. Avoid antibiotics and antiseptics, including chlorinated tap water whenever possible. Also, limit your intake of processed foods, including sugar, high fructose corn syrup, artificial sweeteners, and food additives, which can contribute to dysbiosis when eaten in excess.

6. Move (a lot)

Just as a multivitamin doesn’t stand in for real food, a burst of “exercise” doesn’t stand in for frequent all-day movement. Here are some ways to make sure you’re nourishing every part of your body with frequent movement:

  • Set a pomodoro timer, and get up every 30 minutes to move around for five minutes.
  • Replace car trips with walking. Aim for 10,000 steps a day.
  • Vary your sitting positions, and alternate sitting with standing.
  • Nourish your cells with nutrients by doing full-body tasks, such as housework, cooking, yard work, and gardening.
  • Try a full-body movement practice, such as Restorative Exercise, Essentrics, Dance, Qigong, Tai Chi, Yoga, or Pilates.

7. Relax

Chronic stress is damaging to your body and microbiome. Here are some ways to turn on your body’s relaxation response, also called the “rest and digest” mode, and help your body absorb nutrients better:

  • Learn to breathe slowly
  • Turn off distractions when you’re eating.
  • Do a mindfulness practice.
  • Go for a walk everyday.

 

Focus on Nourishment

Elimination and cleansing diets are popular, but there may be another way to heal yourself. As many of our grandmothers knew, nourishment is the foundation for vibrant health and well-being.

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  • Local, Seasonal Foods are Superfoods
  • Simple Herbal Tonics: Brews for Beginners
  • Eat Bitter Foods for Better Health
  • Want Happy, Healthy Kids? Walk With Them.
  • How Transforming Your Meals Can Transform Your Life

 

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November 6, 2017Filed Under: Health Tagged With: Dairy-free Diets, Exercise, Food Elimination Diets, Free-from Diets, Health, Movement, Nourishment, Nutrients, Physical activity, Relaxation, Stress

August Field Notes

By Abby Quillen

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August must have been the shortest month in history. At least, that’s how it felt for us as we swirled through a whirlwind of conferences, parties, birthdays, and projects. Fortunately, we also took some time out for a much-needed relaxing family camping trip just a few feet from the Pacific Ocean and a lovely hike in one of our favorite spots. I managed to capture some photographic evidence from those adventures, which I’ll share below.

What happened to the big website revamp, you may be wondering. Well, change is coming! But, for a myriad of reasons, I’m postponing it until after I launch my dad’s anthology in November. Stay tuned….

For now, I’m excited to be back to regular posting. I missed you all!

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Did you have any August adventures? I’d love to hear about them in the comments.

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September 9, 2013Filed Under: Family life, Nature Tagged With: August, Blogging Sabbaticals, Camping, Connecting with Nature, Family life, Hiking, Nature, Oregon, Oregon Coast, Outdoors, Relaxation, Sabbaticals, Summer, Vacations

Just One Small Change

By Abby Quillen

When I was writing my New Year’s Resolutions series, I went on the lookout for simple and inexpensive ways we might live better in 2010. And it struck me how much we might be able to improve our lives by making just one small change.

For instance what if someone committed to a daily walk? That alone could bring better health, relaxation, improved sleep, connection with neighbors, and more quality time with family. And if the walk replaced a car trip, it could even save some money. Every small change I thought of had a similar snowball effect.

Recently I heard an interview with William Wittman, a life coach in Seattle. He talked about an easy daily exercise that he recommends to his clients and insists he’s seen it bring huge changes to people’s lives. He calls it “Owl Ears and Owl Eyes”. The idea is to go outside first thing in the morning, stand still, and look up, down, and side to side without moving your head while listening closely to the sounds around you, first the loud ones, then the quieter ones.

Wittman says that by connecting with nature like this first thing in the morning, we connect with what’s meaningful in the world. And by focusing on looking and listening, we can’t help but quiet our mental chatter and relax. He says he’s seen this one small change motivate people to get healthy, find fulfilling work, reach out to friends, and on and on.

I think Wittman might be on to something. Awhile ago my neighbor put down black plastic over the garden in his backyard, which attracted ducks – sometimes sixty of them at a time. And now each night the ducks circle over our neighborhood in groups of four or five, flying lower and lower until they’re just overhead. (I wrote about it before here; my neighbor has since built a pond for the ducks.)

I’ve been shocked at how much this random, natural (and free) event has improved my family’s quality of life. Most nights we go outside to watch the ducks, and we chat with our neighbors, connect with nature, and enjoy each other’s company. Just one small change really has added up to so much more.

(Originally posted on March 16, 2010)

What do you think? Has one small change ever made a big difference in your life?

August 25, 2010Filed Under: Nature, Simple Living Tagged With: Happiness, Meditation, Relaxation, Resolutions

Slow Summer Living

By Abby Quillen

Summer is meant to for slowness. Savor it and get outside. #summer #powerslow

Remember those long summers from childhood? My family spent lots of weekends camping each summer – going on hikes, reading paperbacks in the shade, wading in streams, taking afternoon naps, and telling stories around the campfire. Back at home, my sister and I rode our bikes all over town, walked to the swimming pool most afternoons, made mud pies, captured bugs in jars, read dozens of books, and just played.

Recently I stumbled upon journalist Kelly Wilkinson’s blog Make Grow Gather. She’s on a mission to relive one of those slow, lazy summers from childhood.

This summer, I am attempting an experiment. An experiment to take back summer. Like when I was a kid and thought everyday could be warm and empty and mine.

She made a summer to-do list. Here are a few of my favorite things on it:

Walk barefoot • Take a nap outside • Make suntea • Pick berries • Spend time in hammock • Go on picnic • Make herb water • Hang birdfeeder • Grow vegetables • Go to a farmer’s market • Read the Sunday papers outside • Learn a summer constellation • Go camping •  Read a summer book • Pick wildflowers • Blow a dandelion • Watch fireflies • Make lemonade • Watch a meteor shower • Eat a watermelon • Take a walk on a dirt road

In our house, summer is an opportunity for me to work and write a little bit more, since my husband is home more to watch our son. And that works out great, because after so many months of tearful morning goodbyes and refrains of “Dada gonna be home soon?”, they’re both pretty excited to spend more one-on-one time together. But Wilkinson’s inspired me also to make old-fashioned summer laziness a priority in the next two months.

So I’m planning to spend lots of time here…

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and in our other favorite escapes, and to just really enjoy these long days with my family. So I’ll probably be posting a little bit less during the next two months. But hopefully you’ll be too busy catching fireflies, picking berries, blowing dandelions, and gazing at stars to notice.

June 30, 2010Filed Under: Family life, Nature Tagged With: Camping, Childhood, Family life, Hiking, Laziness, Leisure, leisure time, Nature, Relaxation, Seasons, Summer, Take Back Your Time

Just One Small Change

By Abby Quillen

Photo Credit: Matthew Hull

When I was writing my New Year’s Resolutions series, I went on the lookout for simple and inexpensive ways we might live better in 2010. And it struck me how much we might be able to improve our lives by making just one small change.

For instance what if someone committed to a daily walk? That alone could bring better health, relaxation, improved sleep, connection with neighbors, and more quality time with family. And if the walk replaced a car trip, it could even save some money. Every small change I thought of had a similar snowball effect.

Recently I heard an interview with William Wittman, a life coach in Seattle. He talked about an easy daily exercise that he recommends to his clients and insists he’s seen it bring huge changes to people’s lives. He calls it “Owl Ears and Owl Eyes”. The idea is to go outside first thing in the morning, stand still, and look up, down, and side to side without moving your head while listening closely to the sounds around you, first the loud ones, then the quieter ones.

Wittman says that by connecting with nature like this first thing in the morning, we connect with what’s meaningful in the world. And by focusing on looking and listening, we can’t help but quiet our mental chatter and relax. He says he’s seen this one small change motivate people to get healthy, find fulfilling work, reach out to friends, and on and on.

I think Wittman might be on to something. Awhile ago my neighbor put down black plastic over the garden in his backyard, which attracted ducks – sometimes sixty of them at a time. And now each night the ducks circle over our neighborhood in groups of four or five, flying lower and lower until they’re just overhead. (I wrote about it before here; my neighbor has since built a pond for the ducks.)

I’ve been shocked at how much this random, natural (and free) event has improved my family’s quality of life. Most nights we go outside to watch the ducks, and we chat with our neighbors, connect with nature, and enjoy each other’s company. Just one small change really has added up to so much more.

(This post is for Steady Mom’s Thirty Minute Blog Challenge.)

What do you think? Has one small change ever made a big difference in your life?

March 16, 2010Filed Under: Nature, Simple Living Tagged With: Happiness, Meditation, New Year's, Relaxation, Resolutions

9 Easy Ways to Improve Your Health

By Abby Quillen

9 Easy Ways to Improve Your Health

Do you want to be healthier? Here are 9 easy (and inexpensive!) ways:

1.  Move more.

Dr. James Levine’s study on obesity indicates that increasing unplanned daily physical activity, like standing, walking, talking, cleaning, and fidgeting, can be a more effective way to lose weight than seeking out organized exercise. Increased daily activity may also be more preventative against cancer than recreational activities. Want to learn more? I wrote about it here.

2.  Retire your labor-saving devices

Adding more manual labor to your days is an easy way to increase daily physical activity. This time of year you can shovel snow, prune bushes and trees, hand wash dishes, sweep, clean, cook from scratch, take the stairs, etc. Manual labor makes us stronger and fitter and may also help us to ward off depression. (Plus you can pocket that cash you’d spend patronizing a gym.)

3. Go outside

Nature is good for us. Just viewing natural settings can lower blood pressure, reduce stress, and boost immunity.

4.  Plant a vegetable garden

How can you get moderate daily activity, reap the mental health benefits of manual labor, enjoy nature, and ensure a bounty of fresh (inexpensive) vegetables? Grow some veggies!

5. Commute car-free

A study of car and train commuters in New Jersey found that train commuters took 30 percent more steps per day. And perhaps more importantly, the train commuters reported significantly lower stress levels and better moods than the car commuters. That’s no small finding considering another study found that car commuters can experience greater stress than fighter pilots going into battle or riot policemen.

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6.  Relax

Learning to relax can have huge health benefits. Relaxation methods have been shown to slow heart rate, reduce blood pressure, increase  blood flow, reduce chronic pain, and improve concentration. You can do yoga or tai chi, listen to music, exercise, meditate, do guided visualization, get a massage, or just sit and drink a cup of tea.

7.  Call a friend

Many studies indicate that a good social support system can reduce stress levels and increase longevity. But a third of Americans report having fewer confidants than 20 years ago and 25 percent of Americans say they have no one at all to confide in. Are you stumped on how to make more friends? Start here or here.

8. Take a walk

A daily walk around your neighborhood is a great way to add more activity to your day and connect with your neighbors.

9.  Eat real food

In my three decades, I’ve already seen a number of health fads come and go. Fat was the nutritional pariah of the nineties. Then Y2K rolled around, carbs went out of style, and everyone started loading up on Omega-3s and antioxidants. Meanwhile, we slathered ourselves in sunscreen and treated sunny afternoons like radioactively contaminated Superfund sites. Except now everyone’s vitamin D deficient and popping D3 like Rolaids. My point is, perhaps we shouldn’t make too much of breaking health news, especially since so many studies are funded by the food companies that stand to gain from them. (I wrote more about this topic here.)

So what should we eat? Michael Pollen’s mantra is probably a good way to go: “Eat Food. Not Too Much. Mostly Plants.”

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January 7, 2010Filed Under: Health Tagged With: Depression, Fitness, Gardening, Health, Nature, New Year's, Relaxation, Walking

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